Monday 15 February 2016

Service Stripes



'Bare' with me while I do something brave. I'm not a bikini wearer and never have been but this is what I wear when I do my workout. When I get changed I look in the mirror and sometimes all I see is my stomach and my stretch marks. Stretch marks used to terrify me and as I reached the end of my first pregnancy I was so relieved to see I had made it without getting any - Ha how wrong I was. I think they appeared at around week 35! After having my second baby I've grown to feel proud of my stretch marks.

To me, they are war stripes and they represent the changing, growing, stretching, retching, accommodating, aching, bearing, carrying, sharing, feeling, enduring, waiting, throbbing, twinging, adapting, re-shaping, creating, blooming, nurturing, persevering and producing that my body experienced for nine months and for another nine months just eight months later! My stretch marks bear witness that I gave a part of myself in order to give life to another - and another! I wear my stripes proudly and with the thought in mind that for every stripe I may look at in disgust, there is a woman out there who wishes she had them.

"Jesus endured physical brutality as the Atonement continued. It is written that Jesus was scourged (see Matthew 27:26), which means He was whipped with a lash that likely left he stripes referenced in Isaiah 53:5 with the promise "with his stripes we are healed." Many women have "stripes" or stretch marks as a reminder of the stretching her body experienced while being with child. Dr. Robert Bradley said they "should be worn as 'service stripes' of motherhood." Christ's stripes can be a reminder of the sacrifice she made for her child. Her body has changed. It bears the signs of service given in behalf of another." 
The Gift of Giving Life: Rediscovering the Divine Nature of Pregnancy and Birth. 
By Felice Austin, CHt, Lani Axman, Heather Farrell, CD (DOÑA), Robyn Allgood, AAHCC, and Sheridan Tipley, HCHI. (Pg 347). 


Totally worth it!